Ultimate Love and Power  

Uncover what's behind the Controller Attachment Archetype. Do you are does someone you love:

1. You feel that you need to convince others how to think, feel or behave in order to avoid problems. 
2. You want things to go your way and sometimes, you'll manipulate others using charm or shame to get the outcome you're after. 
3. You know best so you don't want to compromise, cooperate, or negotiate.
4. You're hyper vigilant and compulsively self reliant. It's all up to you all of the time. 
5. You have conditional love. You're only able to love others fully when they are compliant with you.

Uncover what's behind the Fixer Attachment Archetype. Do you are does someone you love:

1. You consider yourself an empath. You feel others and you feel them deeply. 
2. You have a compulsion to help even when help is not asked for.
3. You must be needed to have a relationship.
4. You become resentful when others don’t take or follow your advice or don’t appreciate your help.
5. Your own problems go unrecognized and your  needs go unmet.

Uncover what's behind the Victim Attachment Archetype. Do you are does someone you love

1. You have a tendency to ruminate on past disappointments and perceived wrong doings.
2. You have a deep sense of being different or misunderstood, coupled with a hopelessness of ever being understood, accepted, or known.
3. You have a tendency to blame other people..
4. You have a deep-seated rescue fantasy and look to others to provide a sense of security and safety while simultaneously holding the belief it is impossible to be rescued.
5. You demonstrate a level of treatment resistance by refusing to use the tools given to move out of the role.

Uncover what's behind the Pleaser Attachment Archetype. Do you are does someone you love:

1. You have unbalanced relationships. You do all the giving and accommodating. 

2. You have difficulty making decisions and overvalue the opinions of others.

3. You give up personal truths or desires to avoid rocking the boat or disapproval.

4. You feel overly responsible for the emotions of others and work hard to mitigate the feeling of others.

5. You can be passive aggressive.

Uncover what's behind the Perfectionist Attachment Archetype. Do you are does someone you love

1. You have difficulty admitting mistakes and overreact to criticism.
2. You have very black and white, all or nothing thinking.
3. You judge yourself and others without mercy.
4. You hold yourself and others to impossibly high expectations.
5. You have trouble seeing a project through until the end. You procrastinate and lack follow through in areas where you feel ill equipped.

Uncover what's behind the Pretender Attachment Archetype. Do you are does someone you love

1. You're a chameleon and lack a sense of true identity..
2. You are a performer, they put on a show and pretend you're fine.
3. You lie to look good including telling half truths or embellishing accomplishments.
4.  You have imposter syndrome and deeply fear being found out
5. You compare yourself to others often and feel jealous, covetous and insecure. 

Uncover what's behind the Withholder Attachment Archetype. Do you are does someone you love

1. Feelings and vulnerability are difficult for you .
2. You have vulnerability hangovers and  create distance from others when you feel too close. 
3. You have poor boundaries around sex. You'd rather just give into sex versus confronting deeper intimacy issues.
4. You have poor communication. You ghost people.
5. You have binge restrict cycling with people, places, and things. 

Uncover what's behind the Clinger Attachment Archetype. Do you are does someone you love

1. You develop feelings/fall in love quickly and project a fantasy relationship onto others.  
2. You overshare. You share too much, too quickly.
3. You're loyal to a fault. You're a ride or die with the wrong people. You stay too long. 
4. You don't have good sensory acuity and fail to read social cues.  You don't recognize the unavailability of the people they are attracted to. Or if you do, you ignore it. 
5. You seek constant approval, affirmation, reassurance or praise.