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Codependent Relationship: Clinger and Withholder
To book a consultation reach out here... https://www.lovecoachheidi.com Heidi Rain, D. Div., MNLP, MCC, is the Founder and Professor of The Codependency Institute. Her books, courses, and programs specialize in...
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Is Codependency A BAD THING? The fixer personality
s codependency a bad thing? Today we take a look at the fixer personality and how it creates feelings of resentment. You can download my free book on the Attachment Personality Patterns to understand your codependency...
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Withholding Codependent in Relationships: Intimacy Issues
Withholding Codependent in Relationships: Intimacy Issues To learn more about attachment personality patterns, you can go here...https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ Love Coach Heidi, Th.D, D. Div, MNLP, MCC, Addiction...
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Attachment issues made easy. Codependency explained.
Attachment Issues codependency explained. When you're born into a family dynamic, you learn quickly who you need to be in order to survive, thrive, connect or cope in that family system. And if that family is...
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The Controlling Attachment Personality Pattern: Controlling codependent
The controlling Attachment Personality Pattern Most of the articles you read about a controlling person will actually be describing an abusive person. And that’s simply because all abusive people are controlling. But...
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The Perfectionist Personality: Overcoming Codependency
This is the last Pattern of all the Attachment Personality Patterns I have been teaching over the past 8 weeks. And it’s been the most difficult. I have sat down to write about this pattern 4 times. And each time, I...
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The Withholder Attachment Personality Pattern: Overcoming Codependency and the fear of intimacy
When we are born into a family of dysfunction, we find a way to function. We develop a way of being that allows us to survive, thrive, connect, or cope. I call these Attachment Personality Patterns (APPS). Today, we...
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The FIXER Attachment Personality Pattern : Overcoming Codependency
5 Core traits of a FIXER Attachment Personality Pattern: Overcoming codependency When we’re young, if we’re born into a dysfunctional family where there is addiction, abuse, or toxicity, we take on a way of behaving...
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Overcoming Codependency: The Victim Attachment Personality Pattern. Playing the victim role
Let’s talk about the Attachment Personality of the Victim. Firstly, what is an attachment personality pattern? When you're born into a family Dynamic, particularly one that is dysfunctional. toxic, abusive, or...
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Overcoming Codependency, The People Pleaser Attachment Personality Pattern
In Coming to America, there’s a scene where Eddie Murphy is about to marry his prescribed bride. Before the “I dos”, the groom wants to make sure the bride is a good fit. So, he whisks her “backstage” to ask some...
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Codependency: The CLINGER Attachment Personality Pattern
There’s a funny portrayal of the clinger personality in the movie Wedding Crashers. The lead character attracts the affection of a young woman who comes on strong and never stops. She throws herself at him, uses her...
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The PRETENDER Attachment personality Pattern: Overcoming Codependency
Even though I used to pride myself on having a built-in bullSh*% detector the size of Texas, being able to spot a phony a mile away, I was regretfully unaware of all the ways I was bullshi*&ing myself. I had...
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