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Overcoming Codependency: The Victim Attachment Personality Pattern. Playing the victim role
Letâs talk about the Attachment Personality of the Victim. Firstly, what is an attachment personality pattern? When you're born into a family Dynamic, particularly one that is dysfunctional. toxic, abusive, or...
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Overcoming Codependency, The People Pleaser Attachment Personality Pattern
In Coming to America, thereâs a scene where Eddie Murphy is about to marry his prescribed bride. Before the âI dosâ, the groom wants to make sure the bride is a good fit. So, he whisks her âbackstageâ to ask some...
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Codependency: The CLINGER Attachment Personality Pattern
Thereâs a funny portrayal of the clinger personality in the movie Wedding Crashers. The lead character attracts the affection of a young woman who comes on strong and never stops. She throws herself at him, uses her...
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Mistakes Partners of Addicts and Alcoholics Make
Mistakes partners of addicts and alcoholics make Boundary course here...https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ As an addiction consultant and a codependency expert, I provide people in toxic, addicted or dysfunctional...
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The PRETENDER Attachment personality Pattern: Overcoming Codependency
Even though I used to pride myself on having a built-in bullSh*% detector the size of Texas, being able to spot a phony a mile away, I was regretfully unaware of all the ways I was bullshi*&ing myself. I had...
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How to protect yourself from a toxic person
How to protect yourself from a toxic person. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ to learn about our program to register for the boundary blackbelt masterclass https://lyfeschool.mykajabi.com/regis... Heidi Rain Love Coach...
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Guilt trips and BOUNDARIES when they make you feel bad for holding the bottom line.
Guilt trips and BOUNDARIES: When they make you feel bad for holding your bottom line. If youâve finally gotten to the place of setting a boundary, I first want to take a minute and congratulate you! Itâs no easy feat!...
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When should you Break up with an addict or alcoholic?
Thereâs no more frustrating relationship than the one with an addict and alcoholic because it's like you're with two people: the person you know that exists inside of the person you love and the person they're showing...
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The impact of having an addicted partner on your mental and emotional health
If you are in a relationship with an addict or alcoholic, you are being impacted in 6 major ways! Learn how you've been impacted so you can start the journey to healing and health! As always, LYFE School is the place...
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What is a functioning addict or alcoholic?
what is a functioning addict or alcoholic? Is there such a thing? How do you know if it's a problem? What do you do to help? For more support and to check out our programs, head over to https://www.lovecoachheidi.com
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What's Wrong With Me? The lasting impact on children who grow up in addiction, abuse, or dysfunction
What's Wrong With Me? The lasting impact on children who grow up in addiction, abuse, or dysfunction is a book written by Heidi Rain to help Adult Children of Alcoholics, Substance Abusers, and Children of Dysfunction...
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When to stop trusting an addict or alcoholic to do the right thing. Overcoming Codependency.
Here's the truth. You can have absolutely everything else but if you have a relationship that causes you confusion, anxiety, resentment, or pain, then you'll ask yourself âwhat's the point?â You deserve better than...
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